The basics of parenting are pretty simple:

One thing that is very apparent after more than 20 years of parent education is that there are lots of right ways to bring up kids. I believe that there are just a few essentials to parenting and if you get them covered, I think you can freestyle the rest and things will be just fine.

Let’s get it down to two basics – your kids feeling loved, and feeling safe. If this is happening, I think you have already got a pass mark as a parent. 

By the way, please note that I didn’t say ‘loving your kids’ was the basic, I said that kids feel loved. I’m sure every parent loves their children, but things get in the way and the child doesn’t always actually feel that love. Maybe it is anger, or discipline that is too harsh, maybe it is too much busyness in the home, perhaps a parent isn’t able to be with the child. Learning new and better ways to show love to your children should be a top task for parents.

But I don’t want to over-emphasise the negatives. I want you to catch the positive message – that even with thousands of fantastic parenting books and websites that give good advice, the basics of parenting are simple. If you get love and safety right, it’s amazing how much else you can get ‘wrong’ and still give your kids a great childhood.

 
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